Observation of Men

Just a few observations I have made about the men in my life:

Observation #1:

Majority of my guy friends have become homosexuals....I don't mean become as in they woke up one day and said "hey I want to be gay today," I mean that over the course of our friendship a lot of them have come to realize that this is a part of who they were and they have accommodated their lifestyles accordingly. I have always view homosexually as a matter of preference, not choice. For example, I hate tomatoes I never liked them and I never want them anywhere in any form on my plate....same with men and women, you like what you like. It's as simple as that. I'm not here to judge anyone :)

Observation #2 (and most shocking to me):

Some of the men in my life do not....and I repeat DO NOT shower as frequently as women do!!!! OK this observation came about in the last few days because I never thought about how often men shower I just assumed that because I shower daily (and as often as I feel the slightest bit dirty) everyone else did too. No! I'm wrong (and if you're one of the men in my life and you ever happen to read this notice that I say some because most of you are clean individuals that I love dearly.....but to those some you know who you are but I still love you too lol). OK, so I was talking to someone and I was telling them how I didn't think a friend of mine showered when I last saw them. Not because they smelled bad or anything but b/c I went in their bathroom and their bathroom showed no evidence of them even remotely touching the shower or even having any wet soap to indicate that they washed their hands. Then the person I talked to over told me about a similar situation with a man in her life who doesn't feel the need to shower as frequently either. As we compared stories I began to think of all the other signs out there that I have seen of the men I know who just don't seem to care about showering the way I do. Like I said I'm not here to judge but I just was taken aback (as I usually am when someone's lifestyle differs from my own).....but when it comes to hygiene I can't help by raise an eyebrow.

Observation #3:

I don't think (as a woman) I am meant to understand men. I really don't. There are just too many different types to place one specific label on them all. Which is good because you shouldn't stereotype anyone anyway because everyone is different (duh). Yet, as frustrating as they seem to be (one minute they can't stand you, then they can't stay away, then they mess up, then they're sorry blah. blah, blah) the more they fascinate me. Even knowing that I will never fully understand the intent of their motives (and I'm sure they think the same thing about women) or whether or not they truly "come in peace" or even if they're placed here to torture us I have come to discover......

Observation #4:

I love men :)